Friday, December 28, 2012

Don't Wait for a Change, Be the Change.

         If you want something to happen, don't just wait for it and hope for it to be done for you. Each and everyone of us are much stronger than that. No matter how enormous the change may be, if you don't give up, you'll be able to achieve it. Don't just wait by yourself and hope that it'll come to you. Stand up, and start running and screaming. Even if things turn out all wrong and messed up, isn't it better than just waiting there and having a definite plan that nothing will happen?

        Here's one of the most common and best examples for a change : Relationship. ( Boyfriend and Girlfriend) Let's say Boy A likes Girl A. They're friends and Boy A isn't satisfied with it. If he does nothing and just waits there, hoping for Girl A to take the initiative, than of course nothing will happen. But if he becomes brave and asks her out, then there's actually a chance of change rather than nothing at all. Besides, even if Girl A rejects him, and things get awkward, isn't it better to say that you had the will to try? If Girl A knows Boy A's feelings, she might come to like him back. But he never confessed, then she will never know, and won't develop any feelings for him. The best option is to be the change, not wait for it.

     Don't wait for a change, be the change. Of course this saying doesn't only apply to relationships. It applies to everything. Instead of hoping for someone to lead you, YOU lead. The ones that stand up and start running and screaming, the ones that become the change and not wait for it, are the ones that all of us will remember forever.

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